Creativity is often associated with the arts, but actually, creativity can enhance every area of your life; from chores, to your 9 to 5, to date night. This is because creativity goes hand in hand with intuition, intelligence, and that feeling of ‘flow’.

Another place where creativity counts? In the bedroom. There’s a reason The Joy of Sex has sold over 10 million copies. People love sex; it can be playful, fun, emotional, connective, erotic, quick, slow, kinky, relaxed...and a whole lot of other adjectives.

What is Sex All About?

At the root of it, sex is about making babies. Evolution always wins, it finds a way to make sure the species survives. For humans, that way was to make it feel too damn good not to do it. Good sex can transport you out of your everyday awareness into a world elsewhere. What is not to love about that?

We can ramp up that feel-good juiciness deliberately. There is an energy spiral that flows up from your vagina, through your belly to your heart and then into your mind. This energy is feminine by nature, no matter who is using it. Because of its feminine nature, it moves in a sort of spiral, versus a straight line. When you’re feeling turned on, or in the heat of things, you can watch and even manipulate this energy to spiral up.

This conscious distribution of your sexual energy can also make your orgasms that much stronger and felt throughout the whole body and can greatly increase your innovation and creativity.

Women in particular, have so much creative power. For those of us who have had children, one of the most creative things is making, growing, and delivering a baby. Yes, yes, we know the delivering part hurts like hell, but we forget, and we have the awesomeness of having created a new human being.

Sexual Energy

When we are rooted in our sexual energy, we are super creative. Boundaries and barriers fall away. Just think about that post-sex banter from which great ideas and inspiration flow. Who hasn’t made a life-changing plan while lying among tousled sheets, slightly sweaty, floating, dreaming, imagining?

Sex is life-affirming. Being connected with another person, being truly present, focused, and undistracted by mundane thoughts of life logistics allows us to be vulnerable and open during sex. Being vulnerable allows us to tap into the tender parts of us, the often hidden loving center. In this space, judgment falls away and we can experience the joy and peace of truly seeing and being seen by another.

What If I'm Solo?

Now, maybe you’ve been reading this and are feeling more, ‘my sex life is less romance novel and more girls-gone-wild fun’ or ‘my sex is less intimate connection with a partner, and more a solo adventure’. We’re still talking to you! Orgasm is one of the peak states we experience as humans and its energy can be channeled for our own benefit. When you’re flying solo, try some orgasmic visualization: as you get closer to climax, visualize and embody anything you want to manifest.

Stay tuned for some more blog posts on how you can harness that horsepower when you’re having a twosome party. Until then, godspeed and good orgasms! 😘